Videos
The Truth About Lying
Why do people lie? The answer isn’t as simple as you might think, but regardless of the motivation or reason, deception erodes the very foundation of a relationship. This article is in an attempt to help couples navigate the impact of deception.
Why Couples Fail After An Affair
After an affair, in order to move forward, couples need to come to a common understanding of their history. Without understanding what has actually happened, there is no way for the betrayed spouse to assess the level of damage in their marriage as well as the probability of future success. If there are gaps in the timeline of information, or if there is constantly new information, the entire process can be upended and both spouses can feel paralyzed.
The Truth About Lying
Why do people lie? The answer isn’t as simple as you might think, but regardless of the motivation or reason, deception erodes the very foundation of a relationship. This article is in an attempt to help couples navigate the impact of deception.
Who is the Other Woman?
We’ll be discussing the anatomy of an affair and how to wrap your mind around the concept of who is the other man or woman? (I offer an important disclaimer in this video/article which I hope you’ll read.) It’s vital that we understand who the other party is as well as how to interpret them and frame them in recovery. I hope you’ll be brave today and read more about this necessary step in recovery.
Forgiveness
An anniversary. A text. A name. For the betrayed mate, these seemingly innocent things can throw them right back into the pain they’ve been working to get past. They’re consequences of the betrayal, and they can happen months and even years after the infidelity has occurred. To heal, truly heal, takes regular forgiveness — not anger.
How Could You
In these videos, I’ll begin to explore a pressing question that many betrayed spouses are unfortunately forced to eventually ask. How do unfaithful spouses betray their sense of morals and values, and actually allow themselves to engage in extramarital affairs? How can they disengage from what seemed like normal moral behavior, or in some cases, even impeccable character and integrity, only to slide into inexcusable choices?